Questionnaire for Kinky Gay Boys

The following questions have been put together as an ice breaker and learning exercise for gay boys exploring the kink scene. Obviously they have other uses as well, do with them as you wish. Some are cheesy and stupid, others pretty personal and maybe pretty embarrassing, but it's all in good fun so take the plunge and just do it.

If you're feeling really bold, submit your answers in the comments. Otherwise get in touch to send them privately.

Copy and paste this into a word processor or email so you can add your answers in after the questions. Email to dwc830@gmail.com when finished.


1) How old are you (years and months)?

2) How tall are you (specify units)?

3) How much do you weigh (specify units)?

4) How would you characterize your gender and sexual orientation?

5) How would you describe your physical build/shape?

6) Would you rather be cute or sexy?

7) Were you early, late, or average starting puberty?

8) How hairy are you (how much, where)?

9) Do you remove any hair from places other than your face; if so where, how, and how much?

10) How would you describe your physical condition/overall athleticism? Do you workout? What, how often?

11) Do/did you currently/recently play any sports? Did you when younger (high school, college/university, or growing up in general)? List them and what age ranges for each.

12) Have you been naked in a locker room with other guys? Have you showered with other guys (open showers)?

13) Are you shy or a show-off?

14) Ever had an erection when changing or showering with other guys? Was it noticed? Ever see someone else with one?

15) How much do you sweat?

16) How often do you shower?

17) Have you ever taken a cold shower?

18) Have you ever made out (more than kissing) in front of an audience?

19) What would you consider your pain threshold to be?

20) What are the most physically painful things that have happened to you?

21) What are your biggest turn-ons?

22) Biggest turn-offs?

23) Describe the underwear you typically wear?

24) Have you ever freeballed/gone commando (no underwear)?

25) Describe the swimwear you typically wear? Most revealing you’ve worn?

26) Have you ever slept naked? What do you usually sleep in?

27) Have you ever had a wet dream?

28) Have you ever purposely exposed yourself to someone outside of a romantic encounter?

29) Purposely tried to catch someone else naked?

30) Have you ever been strip searched? Cavity search?

31) Have you ever been given an enema?

32) Have you ever been hazed/initiated?

33) Have you ever been forced to perform physical exercises as punishment?

34) When and how did you first discover masturbation?

35) How often do you masturbate? When/where/how/to what?

36) How much do you cum? Thick or liquid? Precum?

37) How long after an orgasm before you're ready to go again?

38) What's the most times in a day you've masturbated? Longest you've gone without and why?

39) Has anyone ever caught you masturbating?

40) How big is your penis (soft and hard, specify units)?  Circumcised or not?  What directions does it hang/point/bend?

41) Have you ever masturbated in front of or with someone you weren't in a relationship (of some sort) with?

42) Have you ever played “soggy biscuit”?

43) Have you ever been forced to masturbate?

44) What non-standard (ie bedroom or private shower) places have you masturbated? Places you would like to masturbate?

45) Do you enjoy having your balls played with? How?

46) Have you received oral sex from a guy before?  Ages? Did you force him to take it deeper?  Cum in his mouth or on his face?

47) Have you performed oral sex on a guy before? Ages? Did you gag? Swallow?

48) Have you been rimmed (his mouth to your ass) by a guy before? Ages?

49) Have you rimmed a guy (your mouth to his ass) before? Ages?

50) Have you topped/penetrated a guy before? Ages? Did you finish in him? How long do you last?

51) Have you bottomed/been penetrated by a guy before? Ages? Did he finish in you?

52) Were you sore afterwards? How long?

53) How many sexual partners have you had? Do you wish it was more or less? How many do you expect/hope to have in the next 12 months?

54) Where would you describe your position on the top/bottom spectrum?

55) How verbal are you while having sex?

56) Have you ever had a threesome (or more)?

57) Have you ever had oral sex with a guy whose name you didn't know? Anal?

58) Have you ever had intentional (ie not including broken condoms) unprotected anal sex with a guy whose last name and address you didn't know?

59) Have you ever had an STD/STI?  Do you know where it came from?

60) Have you ever been tested for STDs/STIs?

61) What non-standard (ie bedroom) places have you had sex before?

62) Places you would like to have sex?

63) What celebrity (or celebrities) would you most like to have sex with?

64) Have you ever had sex with someone in a position of authority over you (teacher, coach, babysitter, etc)?

65) Have you ever put on a strip show?

66) Have you ever seen a strip show?

67) Have you ever been to an underwear party?

68) Have you ever gone skinny dipping?

69) Have you ever sent nude photos to someone? Ever regretted it? Ever posted them somewhere?

70) Have you ever made a sex tape?  Would you?

71) Have you ever been paid for sex?  Have you ever paid for sex?

72) Have you tasted your own cum?  Someone else's?

73) Have you tasted your own piss?  Someone else's?

74) What objects have been in your ass?

75) Do you own any traditional sex toys (dildo, butt plug, vibrator, fleshlight, etc)?

76) Do you own any more kinky sex toys (chastity device, handcuffs, blindfold, rope, crop/flogger, etc)?

77) What sex toys would you like to purchase?

78) Have you ever worn a chastity device?  How long?  Were you able to escape from it?  Did you have the key or someone else?

79) Has anyone ever discovered your sex toys?

80) Have you ever been tied up by someone?

81) Were you spanked as a child?  How, where, etc?  Up to what age?

82) Have you been spanked since puberty by a parent or authority figure?  Did you get aroused? Was it noticed?

83) Have you been spanked in a relationship or kink setting?  Did you get aroused?

84) What's the most awkward moment during a sexual experience?

85) What porn do you typically watch?  Fav(s)?

86) What's the most embarrassing thing you've masturbated to?

87) What are the kinkiest things you've done?

88) What are the kinkiest things you'd like to do/try?

89) What are the kinkiest things that turn you on but you'd never want to actually do?

90) What questions would you add to this list?

Forced Workout Rules

(from TuffForcedWorkout on Recon)

Forced Workout Rules
Memorize Perfectly
Recite On Command

1. I am here for training, discipline, and punishment
2. I will give 100% effort in all exercises
3. Laziness and disobedience will be punished
4. Sweat and pain make me stronger
5. I will take any punishments like a man, counting strokes loudly and clearly
6. I will thank Coach for punishment
7. Erection and ejaculation are privileges that must be earned


Some excerpts from his profile, slightly modified by me:

Seeking disciplined recruits and athletes to man up and get pushed hard. My forced workouts make heavy use of the stop watch and occasional use of the strap and paddle.

Getting hard? Good. We might have a match.

You will count reps out loud, military style, and will perform each exercise precisely as ordered: strict form, full range of motion, few breaks. Very structured and regimented. You will get no repped and forced to start over if standards are not met.

Ever do punishment conditioning like up downs, bear crawls, or suicides in football? How about bear complexes with barbells? Like to sweat and gasp for breath as you get pushed hard?

Wrestlers and ex-college jocks go to the head of the line. So do those with military experience.

Strict compliance will all orders is required. There are rules. You will memorize them, recite them on command and obey them.

Attitude correction of cocky jocks and boot camp corrections are my special strengths. Part of the discipline involves timed uniform changes, inspection, repetition and punishment to ensure you correctly perform assigned tasks. So does hard labor in digging ditches or filling and moving sandbags. Or maybe you'll just clean the bathroom with a toothbrush or stand at attention on marks on the floor for a long, long time.

You will not be harmed but you will be hurt. I use calculated does of pain for performance improvement.

I seldom raise my voice, but when I lower my voice...you know you have disappointed me... are in deep shit...and are about to be in a world of pain.

You will strip and feel the sting of my wooden paddle or leather prison strap (both with holes) on your bare butt. Next, you will be given some time to "think about it" in a stress position like a wall sit, frozen push up, squat, or plank. And then we will repeat the drill and your performance will improve. Extended scenes are possible. So are prison or hard labor variants.

I may play with your cock and balls, if agreed. And you have to earn the right to cum. You may also be subjected to a humiliating physical medical exam while naked on all fours that involves a prostate exam, weighing and measuring with callipers. 

Hot Stuff from RealHardWorkouts

(some random posts that were originally from RealHardWorkouts on Tumblr (no longer there):

PUNISHMENT PUSHUPS
Inseparable part of forced workouts are penalties or punishments. Usually the trainees must meet unrealistic goals: the failure to meet the set goals results in punishments. Punishments can come in various forms, but most usual is to push the trainee to complete additional workouts, for example, pushups. Usually, the element of additional humiliation is added to the punishment: for example the “penalty pushups” must be performed in nude.

CORRECT WAY OF DOING PUSH-UPS
Trainer is wearing heavy boots, and is carrying a riding crop in his right hand and flogger in his left hand. The trainee is ordered to do 100 push-ups. While doing push-ups, the trainee is nude. Throughout the reps, he must keep his body absolutely straight. If the trainee loses perfect form during a rep, the rep does not count. During every push-up, the trainee’s chest and cock must touch the floor, otherwise the rep does not count. The trainee must count every rep, followed by “Sir!” with loud and clear voice. If the trainee makes a mistake in counting by either mixing the numbers or forgetting to add “Sir!” after every count the whole set is invalid and has to be started over. To help the trainee keep his correct form and increase the difficulty level of the training, the trainer may apply additional pressure by placing his foot in the middle of the trainee’s back. To inform the trainee that a particular rep counts, one lash with riding crop is applied on either of the the trainee’s ass cheek when in “up” position. The trainee may then proceed to the next rep. To inform the trainee that the rep does not count, three lashes with a flogger are applied on the trainee’s upper back. The trainee must then apologise for his mistake by saying “I’m sorry, Sir!” and repeat the rep correctly: only then he may proceed to the next rep.

SQUATS: AN UNDERRATED EXERCISE
We feel that regular squats have been quite underrated in male forced workouts. However, with few simple additions, an effective training technique can be developed that combines all important elements in forced workouts: intense physical training, extremely high physical stress levels, training of pain tolerance, exploitation of trainee’s most sensitive erogenous zones, strict application of physical punishment and last but not least, exciting display of the trainee’s body to appreciate his overall muscular development.
The squats are performed as follows:
1) trainee is completely nude for this exercise;
2) trainee’s ankles and arms are attached with leather cuffs with hooks
3) to the cuffs on the trainee’s legs a wooden pole is attached, forcing the boy’s legs wide apart, to maintain the most uncomfortable and difficult squatting position;
4) to the cuffs on the trainee’s arms another woods pole is attached, forcing the trainee’s arms apart. The trainee is then ordered to raise his arms above his head. To the pole separating the trainee’s arms, weights are attached. During the course of the exercise, more weights can be added as either to increase the difficulty level of the exercise or as a disciplinary measure;
5) trainee is then told to stand above a bench and lower his body to 1/3 of squat position, so that his legs are slightly bent. This position in itself is an effective stress exercise building the resistance of the trainee’s thighs
6) a rubber rope with relatively high resistance is then attached to the middle of the pole separating the trainee’s legs on one end and to the base of the trainee’s testicles on the other end. It is important to observe that the rope be sufficiently tight.
7) on the bench under the trainee a dildo is firmly attached. The dildo must be sufficiently long - it is important that it would touch the splinter muscle of the trainee.
8) now the trainee is ready to start the exercise:
. He must lower his body to the full squat position and then rise to 1/3 squat position, repeating the movement for 100 times. The trainee must obey the following rules while performing the exercise:
- while performing squats the trainee may never lose physical contact with his ass and the the dildo,
- the trainee must keep his arms, carrying the weight, above his head, slightly bent from the elbows
- trainee must keep otherwise perfect position - his pectoral muscles must be thrust forward, his abs completely flexed and tummy sucked in, his genitals must also be thrust forward,
- the trainee must clearly count every rep, followed by “Sir!”
9) to help to guide the trainee through the exercise, the trainer is encouraged to use the riding crop - it is an ideal device to inform the trainee of the required exercise rhythm, counting the reps, or imminent mistakes. Taken into account the trainee’s position, thumps on his balls may be ideal way of additional motivation;
10) if the trainee fails to obey any of the above rules, he is immediately disciplined by ordered to stand at attention fully upright, arms stretched above his head as high as possible. Standing at attention forces the rubber rope attached to the pole separating the trainee’s legs pull down on the trainee’s testicles adding to the overall discomfort. The trainee is then disciplined by 20 strokes with flogger on the part(s) of the body where failure to keep perfect form occurred (ass in case of loss of contact with dildo, back in case of losing overall posture, arms in case of lowering the weight to be carried, thighs in case of loss of required rhythm or pace, all of the above when messing up the counting, all of the above in double amount (40 strokes) in case of forgetting to add the word “Sir!” or failing to utter the word “Sir!” with required clarity and loudness after every rep;
11) After each such failure by trainee the whole set is started again. If this happens, the trainer adds an additional pain-inflicting device to motivate the trainee to complete the session flawlessly: nipple clamps, clothes pins, ball weights, cock clamps. In case of several failures by the trainee, the trainer may connect the clamps to mild to medium electrical current;
12) the exercise is repeated the trainer is satisfied that it has been performed correctly.

Forced Masturbation

Making a boy jerk off while you watch is always fun, and the possibilities are endless.  It can be done in person, via webcam, delayed video, etc.  And there are so many ways to mix it up.  Here are some of my favs:

- Increase the audience. For a shy guy having to masturbate while others watch can be a big mindfuck. Standing in the hallway immediately after walking in and being ordered to strip and jerk off. Inviting a friend or two he's never met over to enjoy the show. Taking video and publishing it to XTube or Tumblr.

- Make it more difficult. If having to jerk off while others watch wasn't embarrassing enough, having trouble doing it is so much worse.  A punishment for failing to finish in a set time can add to it too. Holding in an enema? Full bladder? Waiting for an ice cube (cum cube?) to melt in his mouth? From a difficult position, to having to use his non-dominant hand, to distracting things going on / being done to him, there are so many ways to make it harder.

- Don't let him finish. Make him edge himself repeatedly until he's horny out of his mind.  Only let him cum in the x number of seconds at the top of every minute (but don't let him see the clock, just tell him when the window starts and ends each time).  Make him tell you when he's close and ask permission before he blows (and obviously don't give that permission until he's earned it).

- Repeat. As the saying goes, a good punishment is just starting when you're wishing it was over. Maybe the first load wasn't so bad and he got off easy, see how he does the second or third time around. For a lot of guys the eagerness to play the game goes away almost instantly after they've cum, so forcing them to do things afterwards is often a big deal.


Have fun!  Be sure to share your comments of things you've tried or things you want done to you.